To describe how care home staff experience bereavement and their perspectives on providing bereavement care within care home settings.

Qualitative descriptive study using focus groups analysed with the Framework Method.

Seven residential and nursing care homes for older adults in Scotland.

37 care home staff were recruited through the Enabling Research In Care Homes (ENRICH) Scotland research network. Participants included registered nurses, care workers, senior care workers, managers and ancillary workers with experience of resident death and bereavement practice.

Bereavement was woven through everyday care home life, understood as a tapestry of experiences, relationships and practices that involved staff, residents and their relatives. Three themes that connected to the tapestry metaphor were identified: Warps: structural threads grounding bereavement within the culture of homely living, where close bonds normalise death and dying, and pragmatic acceptance. Wefts: strengthening practices nurturing resilience, including relational trust, mutual support, rituals and follow-up with relatives. Moths: disruptions undermining bereavement practice include family secrecy, hospital deaths with withheld information, difficulty supporting residents with advanced dementia and dissatisfaction with online training.

Bereavement in care homes is collective, relational and embedded in routine practice. Organisational recognition of grief improved interservice communication. Tailored reflective support for staff is needed to sustain compassionate care. Further research should explore how residents experience repeated exposure to death and bereavement within communal living environments.