To analyse the content of letters written by female spouse primary caregivers of patients with glioblastoma multiforme (GBM), a devastating and terminal primary brain cancer, and give voice to their experiences for medical providers of patients with GBM.

A qualitative study using reflexive thematic analysis of letters written by female spouses/life partners and primary caregivers of patients with GBM.

101 current or former female spouse primary caregivers of patients with GBM wrote letters to share with the medical community between July 2019 and August 2019. Inclusion criteria: (1) the primary caregiver who is a spouse of a patient with glioblastoma, (2) be a member of the secret Facebook group, ‘We are the wives of GBM and this is our story’, and (3) completed informed consent for the contents of their letter to be included for primary and secondary data analysis. Participants who wrote letters but did not complete the informed consent were excluded from the study.

Themes from the letters included the patient experiences: (1) medical details of the disease trajectory, (2) interactions of the patient/caregiver dyads with healthcare and (3) the changing patient condition over time. Themes focused on the caregiver experiences: (1) caregiver challenges, (2) caregiver responses and (3) caregiver coping strategies, and description of tangible needs that would help other caregivers in the future. Caregiver needs were highest during the living with disease progression phase. Caregivers wanted more education and to be valued as members of the care team.

Shared decision-making through family-centred care would be beneficial for primary caregivers of patients with GBM. These findings provide opportunities to guide more timely and tailored interventions to provide support and improve care for patient/caregiver dyads to help mitigate the burden of this progressive disease and improve quality of life for caregivers.